love.. in its real sense

Love is not primarily a relationship to a specific person;
it is an attitude,
and orientation of character
which determines the relatedness of a person to the world as a whole,
not towards one object of love..


Comentario:

anonymous said:
Love can be an obsession or an illusion put up by ourselves or by somebody to us.
--November 15, 2006, 6:39 PM

nysa said:
hi, tnx for the comment!
--November 16, 2006, 11:28 AM

do this

Pag nagmahal ka,
di baleng sabihin nilang martir ka..
Basta, ibigay mo lahat,
mahalin mo sya ng sobra..
para kung sakaling iwan ka nya, masasabi mong:

"Di ako nagkulang sa'yo, hindi ka lang nakuntento."

ano nga ba ang pagmamahal?

yun ba yung pinaiyak ka na, pinatawad mo pa?

yun bang binabalewala ka na, hinahanap mo pa?

yun bang nagmamahal na ng iba, minamahal mo pa?

o yun bang kinalimutan ka na, umaasa ka pa?

eto nga ba?!

Pa'no kaya kung wala ka?
Ano gagawin ko?

Maglalasing? . . . over!!

Magpapakamatay? . . . sobra!!

All i'll do is pumunta sa isang sulok,
iiyak at magdarasal..

"Lord, balik mo na sya..
di ko na kaya.."
;'(

soulmates

Do you believe in soulmates?

They say, there are two people constantly in search for one another
without them even knowing.
They just feel incomplete somehow.

Soulmates are meant to be together forever that's why they continuously search for each other,
against time and space..
Lucky are those who actually cross paths..

However, they just cross..
But who said they could actually be together?

fairytale

We used to think that life is a fairytale..
Full of magic, exciting, vivid!
But that was a long time ago..
Now we know that there's more to life than just "happily ever after.."

We've learned that we get wiser each day. And no fairy can lead us to happy ending..
And somehow we begin to understand..
That we have the power to make each day better than yesterday..

What Is Love?

Love isn't when you can't sleep,
It's when you want to keep your eyes open..

Love isn't when you keep holding on,
It's when you learn to let go..

Love isn't when you kill yourself with jealousy,
It's when you understand..

Love isn't when you fall for someone,
It's when you catch that person when he falls..

Love isn't when you see him everywhere,
It's when you close your eyes and he's still there..

Love isn't when you tell him what you feel,
It's when you give up everything for his sake..

And love isn't when you think you were blind,
It's when you know that you're wrong..

..but you just didn't mind..

i will

When things try to hurt you..
I'll be there to care.
I'll be around to soothe you.
I'll be with you through it all.

I'll hold and hug you while saying..

Promise, I won't let you bear the pain
alone.."

finish it, find another, love again

"You can't finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.

Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It's a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.

The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We loose someone we love only when we're destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves."

never forget

When I walk,
I always put markings on the way..

When I talk,
I make sure my words will not be forgotten..

When I fought,
I degrade my enemy and leave them lifeless..

When I love,
I bury myself to that feeling and never turn back.

But when I'm hurt,
I only smile..

A practical way of being human..
Although suffering..
still looking forward..
to a brighter day..

my strengths

I look at my friends then I look at me.

Without my hunnys, where would I be?

My friends..
my sisters..
my shadow..
my world..

Where would I be without my girls?

Tears..
giggles..
smiles and laughs..
late night calls..
and cute photographs..

I'll be there for you
till the day of my death..
Best girlies forever..
till my very last breath..

today's a new day

You messed up yesterday.
You said the wrong words,
..took the wrong turn,
..loved the wrong person,
..reacted the wrong way.

You spoke when you should have listened,
..walked when you should have waited,
..judged when you should have trusted,
..indulged when you should have resisted.

You messed up yesterday.
But you'll mess up more if you let yesterday's mistakes sabotage today's attitude.

Today's a new day, live it well.

friends means

Friends means..

..trusting yourself with someone who has seen you at your worst and loves you any way.
..teasing each other and laughing at inside jokes nobody but only the two of you understand.
..feeling safe enough to talk about anything ang having the patience to work out disagreements.
..counting on someone, someone who sympathizes when you had a bad day, worries about when gone too long.
..and always welcomes you with open arms.

which love story is yours?

Love is not always a fairytale..

There are people who give so much love to those who don't love them back.
There are some who feel so loved and find out in the end, they were fooled.
There are some whose into mutual love but can't call their partner as their own because someone already holds the title.
There are some who give so much love but the other won't believe because they always consider your pass.
There are some who receive so much love but can't seem to move on from the previous relationship.
Or others just want to play the game and choose their playmate.

Which story is yours?

desisyon ng pagkakataon

Makakabalik ka nga sa lugar..
..pero hindi sa panahon.

Makikita mo ulit ang taong minamahal mo..
..pero hindi na mauulit ang naramdaman ninyo noon.

Lahat ng nangyari noon..
..isa na lamang masayang gunita ngayon,
..isang bintana sa kahapon,
..na paminsan-minsan ay gusto mong masulyapang muli..

Sabay bulong sa sarili,
"Sana, pwedeng ibalik ang mga nangyari noon..
..para magawa kong tama ang mga maling desisyon ng pagkakataon.."

no commitment

When a man and a woman get a feelings with each other,
it doesn't necessarily mean that,
to preserve your intense feelings,
you need to have a formal relationship
as boyfriend and girlfriend.

While both of you are still busy with their personal life or in anything,
it's possible that you could make each other as an inspiration.

NO COMMITMENT.
Just a romantic bond.

Isn't it much sweeter and nicer when you both accomplished everything you want in life..

..and yet, you still end up..
..TOGETHER..

whatever happens, happens

Sometimes, we need to stop analyzing the past..
..stop planning for the future..
..stop trying to figure out precisely how we feel..
..stop deciding with our mind what we want our heart to feel..

Sometimes, we just have to go with:

"Whatever happens, happens.."

rubix cube

Ang puso..
..parang rubix cube..

May susubok buuin pero susuko rin..
May pipilit bumuo pero iiwan rin..

Pero may taong dadaan at aayusin..

..at pag nabuo na,
bigla ulit sisirain..

there's no such thing as forgetting

It's a lie to say you've let go of the past..
Nobody let go of memories..

Each tear is an unforgettable memory..
Each smile is an undeniable mark..
Each heartbreak is an uneraseable scar..

Because really, there's no such thing as forgetting..

..only acceptance..

Simple Lesson

This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love:

They try to possess it, they demand, they expect..
And just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you.

For love is meant to be free. You cannot change its nature. If you love someone, allow him / her to be free.

GIVE and DON'T EXPECT.
ADVISE but DON'T ORDER.
ASK but NEVER DEMAND.

It may sound simple but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice..

compatibility

do you know what compatibility means?

derived from Latin words com and pati
com means together
pati means patient

patient, not the virtue
but a suffering ill person

put them together
and compatibility literally means

"to suffer together"..

still looking for someone compatible with you?

really sad

the hardest part
about walking away
from him..
is the part
that i have
to realize
that he'll
never..
ever..
run after me..

--bating

love v. pain

"I thought love can melt the pain no matter how painful it is..
But I was wrong..
Because now I know, pain can melt the love no matter how great love is.."

The Paradox of Life

Everybody wants to live a long life,
but nobody wants to get old..

Everybody wants to go to heaven,
but nobody wants to die..

A piece of advice:
Don't live life in a hurry. We must realize that in this journey called life, no one will ever reach the finish line alive..

just do it!

Do the one thing that you cannot do..
Fail at it..
Try again..
Do better the second time..

The only people who never tumble are those who never mount the high wire.

This is your moment..
Own it..

--Oprah Winfrey

good v. bad

No matter how good things are in your life,
there's always something bad that needs to be worked on..

and no matter how bad things are in your life,
there's always something good you can thank GOD for!

HIM

"You won't be his first, last or only..
He loved before and he'll love again..
He loves you now. What else matters?

He's not perfect, you're not either..
If he makes you laugh and admits to make mistakes..
Hold on to him and give the most you can..

He won't be thinking of you every moment,
but he'll give you a part of him..
he knows you can break, his heart..

Smile if he makes you happy..
let him know if he makes you mad..
and miss him when he's not around..

Remember, a perfect guy doesn't exist..
only a perfect love that he can give..

happy in-love

The real purpose of love
is not getting what we want
but unselfishly giving what we have

We do not put a price
on the love that we give
because we should give it unselfishly
without compensation..

we do not love someone
because of what he or she is
but because of what we are
when we are with that person..

Love should not just be about
receiving something in return,..
it should be about loving..
and just loving..
because it makes us happy..

i hate it (but love it, too!)

Know what?

--I hate to fall in love..

Know why?

-- 'coz every time i do so..
i cry..
i suffer..
i become weak..

one simple reason is that
because I don't just give "LOVE"

I also offer
my "LIFE"..

natural lang 'yon!

Life has its own pains..
failures..
and everything..

Natural lang 'yon..

It's God's way to teach us how to make one-step higher
after we fall..